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To Approach Women
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Chris Tannoy
http://www.new-dating.com
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How To Recognize Positive Signals And Approach Women?
If you are hesitant to approach woman you may be wondering:
1. How do I know if she is interested in getting close to me?
2. Is he going to let me down right from the start?
A practical approach would be to make sure you meet 'casually' at the very beginning, and then later call her up and ask her out.
People love to talk about themselves, and feel very comfortable doing so. So your task is to make clear you are interested and accepting their attitude.
There are many different ways to start conversation with someone. You need to decide upon the best approach. Some people are more adventurous than others. Some people want to know your whole life story before they will date you; others don't even need to know your name.
Women are flattered by the interest and attention a man gives them, even when they're not interested in a relationship. If you can realize this, you will feel better and relax.
To break the ice of the first conversation,
try to be smart and smartly approach your prospects.
I took a few quick excerpts from the eBook: “Men's Guide to Conversation: Proven Techniques for Deepening Communication”!
1. Try to learn as much information about them as you can.
Information about their families, pets, favorite food, birthdays etc. These makes wonderful topic for starting unconventional chat. It always boosts the conversation, and usually you can learn enough to know if she wants to see you again.
Ask questions.
And try to make them "why", "how", or "what" questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes", "no", or "maybe". Instead try something like: "So, what was your favorite part of Sex and the City?”
Get involved.
Try your hand at chatting in a crowd. Groups of people get together and shoot the bull. See if you can tell a joke or be witty or bring up an interesting tidbit of information.
Don’t brag on or analyze you problems.
Don't discuss any of your family or monetary problems. Don't bitch about your previous girlfriends or ex-wives on how they mistreated you, dumped you, cheated on you etc. Get a clear image of your ideal successful future, and then take whatever action you can to begin moving in that direction.
Don't brag about yourself and your accomplishments. Focus on your prospect’s interests and most important on the Future!
Focus on the future rather than on the past. Instead of worrying about who did what and who is to blame, focus on where you want to be and what you want to do. Get your mind, your thoughts, and your mental images on the future.
Think About the Solution
Whenever you're faced with a difficulty; focus on the solution rather than on the problem. Think and talk about the ideal solution to the obstacle or setback, rather than wasting time rehashing and reflecting on the problem. Solutions are inherently positive, whereas problems are inherently negative. The moment that you begin thinking in terms of solutions, you become a positive and constructive human being.
I know this is a rather long list of things to remember, but I can assure you, if you avoid making these mistakes it greatly increases your chances of making a favorable impression on your first date with single women and they will be interested in going on more dates with you.
Chat up women or initiate conversation.
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Chris Tannoy
http://www.new-dating.com
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